If you're foreign to the Vietnamese clubbing scene, the first thing you're gonna notice is the lack of a dance floor. Everybody sticks by their own tables, dancing only with their group, even if their group is a bunch of heterosexual guys. Once in a while, you might make acquaintances with the table beside your's, kind of like when you're forced to make polite conversation with the passenger sitting next to you on a flight.
The second thing you'll notice if you happen to find yourself at the right clubs is the Vietnamese phenomenon of "PR Chicks." Unlike the states where guys can go to a club and find a plethora of single ladies to prey on, Vietnamese girls rarely go clubbing on their own. Instead, the girls latch onto guys who are willing to pay for bottle service so generally what you'll find when entering these clubs are tables full of guys accompanied by their dates. However, you'll never find a table of just "DTF" girls looking for a good time. So, the clever club owners hire these PR chicks to entertain the male guests that come in without any female companions. It's a win-win for each party involved. The guys get to mingle with attractive females, and the gals get more prospective bait while getting paid. Not exclusive to just clubs, you can find these PR chicks in certain restaurants, karaoke bars, etc.
And unless you're the biggest douchebag on the planet or you look like the Predator, the PR chick will gladly give you their phone number if you ask for it. But that's where the real game only begins. These girls meet new guys every single night, so you must ask yourself, how are you going to differentiate yourself from every other horny bastard? Obviously if you're Scrooge McDuck rich, you can easily bag these chicks by throwing money at them. But if you're reading this, you're probably wasting your time in a cubicle, not sunbathing on a yacht in St. Barts.
Here are some simple pointers to help you gain an edge with these well-trained professionals. First off, you must make them not see you as a customer, which will be their first impression of you. They're working for tips, so like a good whore, they're going to fake a good time if they have to. The more you think they like you, the more you're probably going to tip. Speaking of tips, please remember to always tip well, but not too well. If you tip too much, they're going to milk you like a pregnant cow. Tip too little, and they probably won't answer your phone call the next day. So although they're there to entertain you, if you want to bag this chick, you have to make them forget that they're working. Reverse the roles and become the male whore. Make them want to spend time with you because at the end of the night, you're going to ask her to go eat and you want her to pick you, not the other guys she was also entertaining that night.
With PR chicks, the night doesn't end when the club closes. They're not required to go out with you afterhours, but it's encouraged by the establishment's owners. If you want any hope of bagging your PR chick, you're going to have to spend time with her away from her work. One way is getting her to go eat after her shift ends. Consider it your first date. Bond with her, share with her...you know, all that dating bullshit. She's not going to let you sleep with her the first night but as long as she had a good time, then she's willing to spend time with you again. Plus, you won't have to go back into her workplace when you want to see her again. At this point, it's up to you to get her.
Once you've started dating a PR chick, here are reminders not to forget: If you're a jealous guy, these girls obviously aren't for you. They're going to be rubbing elbows and other body parts with men every night. They're going to be getting random phone calls and text messages throughout the day, and you're just going to have to shrug it off.
Additionally, this isn't going to be a typical relationship. PR girls work late, and sleep even later. Most won't even wake up until the late afternoon which is when they'll have to get ready for work again. So hanging out with your chick is going to be rare. This may work to your advantage, though. If you want a booty call, these girls will get off work at 3 am or so, come over, bone, and then fall asleep. You might take them to eat when you two wake up, but that's the whole extent of the relationship. For guys trying to juggle chicks, PR girls are the simplest girls to handle.
The PR breed of women is unique but the job description has been written before. Their lives resemble the lives of strippers in that they're constantly subjected to men and well, manly ways. They've been hooted at, hollered at, and grabbed every which way and as soon as this reality is embedded in your head, then these girls will be at your whim. At the end of the day, they're looking for the same things any human is: someone to share time with. It's your job to show them something they haven't experienced to help them weed through the real and fake guys they're constantly exposed to. And yes, like the stripper, these girls get paid to like you...at first. But with a little charm, charisma, and chivalry, you might be able to turn a ho into a housewife.
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